Apples and Durians

Apples and durians are fruits which are completely different from each other in shape, smell, fruit texture and size. Durians are fruits which have a pungent odor and thorny husks. On the other hand, apples are small fruits that have no distinct smell with a smooth surface. Now, these fruits can be used as examples of the two distinct types of lives that one can possibly live.

The thorns of a durian can be compared to a life of dedication and challenges to improve oneself. This life of zeal is a rare type of life because many do not want to risk their comfortable lives for self-improvement. At the end of such a life is complete satisfaction, which is compared to the flesh of the durian. A botanist once described the durian's flesh as, "...a creamy custard, flavored with almonds." Such life is appreciated more because one can look back and see that he has crossed many hurdles and lived an exceedingly fruitful life.

However, the life compared to that of an apple is a life that is smooth sailing, luxurious, and easy-going. It is the life that everyone desires for. One is happy with what he currently has, but will he be happy for long? No, because he doesn't value what he has and he will keep wanting more. He would want more money, more land, and more of everything; however, there is no limit to more. There is no definition of the word "rich". Sadly, it is a life that is nice to look from the outside, but a rat race on the inside.

So is your life like that of a durian or that of an apple?